Love Quotes For Her


I absolutely love these quotes! This is for her.

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“You may not be her first, her last, or her only.

She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters?

She’s not perfect—you aren’t either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh,

Cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can.”

“She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break—her heart.

So don’t hurt her, don’t change her, don’t analyze and don’t expect more than she can give.

Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she’s not there.”

—Bob Marley

Enjoy your weekend!

Pamela🌹

Three-Days Quote Challenge (Round II, Day 2)


I would like to thank Chape from Chape blog, a blog where you can find motivation, fitness, and all things health, for nominating me.

Challenge’s rules:

  • Post three consecutive days.
  • You can pick one or three quotes per day.
  • Challenge three different bloggers per day.

Today’s quote is by Elizabeth Gilbert.

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“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. ”

“A true soul mate is probably the most important person you’ll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.

A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master…”
― Elizabeth Gilbert, Eat, Pray, Love

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Writing Challenge (Day 30) What Excites Me 


Ah! Today is the last day for this challenge and I had quite an experience. I was able to share life experiences, give you a glimpse through the window of my soul, (as so it seems), while learning a few things from you all.

One more time, today I want to share what excites me, and below I want you to comment on what excites you; what ever it may be.

 What excites me is love. A love for another is beautiful. In this day and age we need love more than ever. What excites me about love, all types of love, is the will to do for others before yourself. Or to start the day off with a person(s) in mind and you won’t let the day go by without sending some love their way in person or cyberspace. It’s exhilarating!

Whether it’s love for a spouse/significant other, or a love for a friend/author/blogger, we express love to the highest altitude.

I love to witness love being interacted between others. Although, and some of you may have heard me say this, I haven’t received love of this degree in a relationship. Sometimes you just want to be there for someone and do for them, but it’s disheartening when they take you for granted. I can experience love, madly, deeply, and truly in my characters and know it exists. It comes from somewhere deep inside and what I wanted in life, I’ll witnessed in others.

A passionate kiss, a heartfelt hug, and a simple “just checking up on you”, can go a long way. It doesn’t always have to be anything major, at least not all the time.

I truly believe the love I give and receive from friends and people I’m getting to know or barely know is undeniably astounding. Sometimes we just want what we never had, but I’ve learned that it begins with YOURSELF.

I’m learning to experience self-love. Love begins with what’s inside you. Whatever 2016 may bring, I hope that at some point I learned further to connect with myself spiritually, get to know who Pamela(me) is. I’ve lost who I was down the line. And, furthermore, to love myself unconditionally (single).

Love is kind and gentle. It’s patient and it is self-sacrificing. That what excites me- love. What excites you? I would love to hear it.

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Three-Day Quote Challenge (Day 1)


I have always been a sucker for quotes just as much as I am for poems. Much thanks to Dr. Meg at Meg Sorick- writes better than she dresses for challenging me. I’m thrilled to share with you all the quotes that have spoken to me, and I hope they do the same to you.

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 I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.

—Lisa Kleypas

 

I used to think this way. I have believed in soul mates for a long time. I also took what I saw on television and in music, believing that soul mates actually exists. Flawless, supposedly enamored people who called the one they are with their soul mate. What does that even mean?

No one is perfect. We all have flaws but that don’t mean you or anyone isn’t fit to be together. You can search your entire life for that perfectly flawless individual thinking that’s what you’re soul mate is, but you will never find him/her.

Being Faithful


When you’re faithful you fall deeper in love every day. A lot of relationships fail because some people refuse to give 100% of their heart. You can’t have a lifetime covenant with a part-time commitment.

—Tony Gaskins

I absolutely love to read quotes as such as this by Tony Gaskins. Most of us feared to give 100% of ourselves because of being hurt or being “played”.  For most of us had been to the point where every relationship seem to failed and we are left asking ourselves, ” Why?”

“Why am I going through this? I tried my best to be the best person I’m supposed to be, in a relationship. Is there something I could have done differently?”

I, myself, had been in crazy, difficult predicaments where I didn’t know if it was me or the other person, or both. You’re loyal, committed, determined, faithful, you name it, and can still be taken for granted. Could it be that you love too much, too hard? Or, is it that that person can’t see your worth until it’s too late.

You wake up every morning, thanks to the Lord, and wonder what will the day brings. But, I have to tell you, you are in control of your life and which direction it goes. If you believe you’re going to have a Hell on earth type of day, trust me, you are going to have it. If you wake up and believe that no matter what, you are going to make the best of your day and detour around the negatives, your day shall be full of light.

Some people get into a relationship because they don’t want to be alone (or be lonely), but they are not quite fully ready for something so serious. And, if they aren’t fully ready, they are not fully committed, which will only cause problems down the line.

Tony Gaskins said it right, you can’t have a lifetime covenant with a part-time commitment. They just doesn’t go hand in hand. If you are the one who aren’t committed, be man or woman enough to tell your significant other that you are not ready, before a disaster happens. It’s okay to make a stand until you are able to figure out what’s your deal is and work on it, as a single person. Work on yourself inside and out till you can say, “I am ready.” Hopefully that person is still waiting, but not everyone can wait forever. wpid-relationship-love-quotes-009.jpg

If you are with someone who has these issues, maybe they are afraid of coming forward and you might have to tell them, “Hey, we need to talk.” Whatever works for you for either end, make that effort. Everything will be okay if you allow it to. Light and love.

Until we meet again,

Pamela🌹