Three-Day Quote Challenge (Day 1)

I have always been a sucker for quotes just as much as I am for poems. Much thanks to Dr. Meg at Meg Sorick- writes better than she dresses for challenging me. I’m thrilled to share with you all the quotes that have spoken to me, and I hope they do the same to you.


 I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.

—Lisa Kleypas


I used to think this way. I have believed in soul mates for a long time. I also took what I saw on television and in music, believing that soul mates actually exists. Flawless, supposedly enamored people who called the one they are with their soul mate. What does that even mean?

No one is perfect. We all have flaws but that don’t mean you or anyone isn’t fit to be together. You can search your entire life for that perfectly flawless individual thinking that’s what you’re soul mate is, but you will never find him/her.

How Do One Keep a Relationship?

 These are merely tips on how one could keep a relationship going. I, for one called them advices. I can tell you it is not easy keeping a relationship going, especially if one of you falls into a pattern; or get a little too comfortable. It’s easy to start off doing all of the right things in the beginning, but what happens months later? Years later? We have to do everything in our power to make a relationship/marriage work. And, that is if you are willing to make it work. The photo above explains everything precisely.

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What Does Love Means to You?

Love doesn’t just means to say you’re sorry. Love is the essence  of what we have to conquer to make this thing right, within us and around us. It is often taken for granted, from the ones who haven’t got it quite right yet. It’s something that is often hard to decipher, leaving most confuse to understand the language- the language of love.

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You have to first love yourself. Before you can love another human being, you have to first love the person you see in the mirror everyday. No one can love you better than you love yourself. You’ll know what you can and can not tolerate, what make you tick, and knowing that person (which is you) deep down.

What does it mean when a person tells you they love you? Is it from the heart or are they just saying it for the moment? Some people say it with their whole heart, but it’s the matter of doing not just the saying. From the little things they do to the greatest; showing goes as far as just hearing those three little words.

Love is expressed as an action and experience as a feeling. When you expressed love, it goes deeper than the deepest well, further than the widest sea, higher than the highest mountain.

What are the qualities of love? They are:

  • Empowering
  • Appreciated
  • Everlasting
  • Valuable
  • Confident
  • Peaceful
  • Respect
  • Co-operation
  • …. just to name a few.

Give immensely without expecting something in return. Actively show love. Love unconditionally. Accept what love has in store for you and expect nothing less. Be tolerant.

Until we meet again,



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