Instagram Moments On Monday- Have More Positivity 

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In our lifetime, we should do and bring more positive in our lives, and as well in others. If we all can have more hope, trust, and confidence while believing that exerting positive energy will overrule any and all negatives.

Let’s make a change today to do and bring more positives in our lives and the lives of others.

Light and love.

Show Your Self-Respect, You’re Still Beautiful

It’s becoming a well know fact all over social media of women being misjudged, mistreated or they, themselves, going beyond their means to devalued their self-respect.

For one, most people had took to the internet some of the most insane, asinine photos and videos of them doing ridiculous stuff. I had to keep telling myself it’s just the internet but when is enough is enough?

From women twerking (and little girls too) to posts up of them nearly naked. It’s damn near soft porn! Excuse my language. When these same females received comments from another female to tell them to respect themselves and so forth, they claimed they are being hated on. Huh? How can another woman hate on another woman who posed provocative and barely have on any clothes. Mind you, majority of them are not models or anything of that nature. They just love the overwhelming excitement from men who leaves lewd comments that shouldn’t be on a public site.

Most men craved women of this nature while saying how the women  have no self-respect, no class, no morals. I don’t get it. They just hit “like” and left those ridiculous nasty comments. I’ve seen men tell these women not only that they are beautiful but no other woman of their caliber are. A few weeks ago I commented on a model(which she was more than just that) that I had the same body type as her before pregnancy, and asked for advice related to weight loss. This guy commented to me wanting proof that I have that body type. I was flabbergasted yet outraged. He kept pressuring me to show him photos of me and when I demanded that I will not send him any and to leave me alone; he claimed I was a liar about my body and I should SHOW it to him. So in his eyes, based on me not showing it, I’m not deemed beautiful.

I believe ALL women are beautiful! Being nearly naked, posting pictures of yourself always in lingerie, thongs, doesn’t make you beautiful. I avoid posting pictures of my body period; you have crazies out there.

Women, your inner beauty is just as gorgeous as your outer beauty. You don’t need validation from anyone that wearing less or slutty clothes make you gorgeous enough to deemed worthy in the eyes of most of these pitiful men.

Some women, majority are very young, will only get attention if they are beauty pageant gorgeous with a body of a porn star for these men to like them. It saddens me that most women with class and self respect get overlooked because they are judged of being boring, or not pretty enough, or not showing off the goods.

I am going to teach my daughter early on to know her self worth and to never fall weak for attention. I apologize for my ranting, I’m mortified and saddened what this internet is coming to.

Have anyone ever had this happened to them or witnessed it happened to another female?

What else can you add to this?

Thank you for reading. Light and love.

Instagram Moments On Mondays- Quotes

I couldn’t have said it better than what Aisha Thalia stated.

The last few days while I stared off into a daze, pondering on life and my current relationship status, I placed my harbored feelings to aside.

Not permanently but to take a step back and view the bigger picture. I’m not allowing myself to continue this out-of-control roller coaster ride, but to give my spirit a chance to be at ease. Oftentimes we can get so consume in our relationship matters that it becomes our whole world. All the important things aren’t being nourish, because we give birth to a bad seed. We will water it and give it that all time TLC thinking it can manifest into something we desire. Yet, all the while knowing that you can’t force anything to be what you want it to be.

Yes, taking a step back while taking time for myself. I don’t know what the near future has in store for me, but I would like to be ready.


Aisha Thalia is a beautifully spirited person and she makes nearly all who follow her smile and laugh. And, to motivate you that no matter what is going on, NEVER give up. You can follow her by clicking/tapping on the picture.