Writing Challenge (Day 11) Relationship Status

For todays writing challenge (Day 11), I’m yet to expose myself more and more everyday and share it with the world. I am to write about my current relationship status, whether in a relationship or single.

This post is two posts (of a previous post) merged into one. Since, I can not simply speak on my current status, (too overwhelming) I’m just going to lightly scratch the surface.

Most take a relationship for a joke, after they feel like they have “gotten” you; and take what was meant to be beautiful for granted.  I hate to see ones who want and try so hard to keep a relationship going while the other is merely slacking off. Some get into a relationship or marriage with false pretenses leaving the other to believe what the heck happened.

I’m sorry. I have to leave this one here. Just too emotional to write about. Please feel free to share what being in a relationship means to you, or anything else you feel fit. Thank you for reading.



Above photo are merely tips and explains everything on how one could keep a relationship going. I, for one called them advice. I can tell you it is not easy keeping a relationship going, especially if one of you falls into a pattern; or get a little too comfortable. It’s easy to start off doing all the right things in the beginning, but what happens months later? Years later? We have to do everything in our power to make a relationship/marriage work. And, that is if you are willing to make it work.

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What Does Love Means to You?

Love doesn’t just means to say you’re sorry. Love is the essence  of what we have to conquer to make this thing right, within us and around us. It is often taken for granted, from the ones who haven’t got it quite right yet. It’s something that is often hard to decipher, leaving most confuse to understand the language- the language of love.

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You have to first love yourself. Before you can love another human being, you have to first love the person you see in the mirror everyday. No one can love you better than you love yourself. You’ll know what you can and can not tolerate, what make you tick, and knowing that person (which is you) deep down.

What does it mean when a person tells you they love you? Is it from the heart or are they just saying it for the moment? Some people say it with their whole heart, but it’s the matter of doing not just the saying. From the little things they do to the greatest; showing goes as far as just hearing those three little words.

Love is expressed as an action and experience as a feeling. When you expressed love, it goes deeper than the deepest well, further than the widest sea, higher than the highest mountain.

What are the qualities of love? They are:

  • Empowering
  • Appreciated
  • Everlasting
  • Valuable
  • Confident
  • Peaceful
  • Respect
  • Co-operation
  • …. just to name a few.

Give immensely without expecting something in return. Actively show love. Love unconditionally. Accept what love has in store for you and expect nothing less. Be tolerant.

Until we meet again,



couple in love