It’s My Birthday Weekend & A Freebie!


Scheduled post.

Good morning/afternoon/evening everyone! How are you? I am stoked (or at least I want to be) because with everything going on with my family life and such, today, I plan on doing something other than sulking. Tomorrow (April 3rd) is my birthday, and with my anxiety/depression issues, my daughter and I are celebrating my birthday a day early. And that is because if I don’t get to do anything the day of, at least I have done something the day before.

Monday, I am going with my mother who is having surgery done. I hope everything goes well with that. I can’t begin to say what else is going on, because I’m still trying to wrap my head around it. You know when one thing happens, five more and another five followed. Those things had occasionally affected my mental health, and I have been working on that. The medication for anxiety/depression isn’t working like it should. I have been taking them since last November.

Okay, enough of all of that. I want to think happy thoughts for a change, and don’t want to sound down when there are others who are going through something as well.

Today, my daughter and I are going shopping, and to see the movie, Morbius. And do whatever else I would like to do. This is the first time in a very long time, I get to do what I want and feel like doing for my birthday. I used to spend it sitting around where I used to live with someone who do not like me leaving the house unless he said so.

Okay, I’m beginning to ramble…

So, also for the weekend, I am catching up on books I haven’t finished reading and new books. And well into next week while I sit in with my mom while she recovers. (It may take several weeks for her recovery though.)

For my birthday, I am doing what I normally do like I do other parts of the year, which is donating to charity. Other than donating money, clothes, and non-perishable, I like that in my area, the money people donate goes to help abused women and children. And help people pay their bills, medications, and such.

And, drum roll, please. Okay, just kidding. Also for my birthday weekend, my ebook, Secrets Unveil will be available for free starting today and up until Wednesday (4/6). So, if you don’t have a copy and would like to get one, now is your chance.

Available at Amazon.

Thank you for reading this post. I hope you have a good rest of your weekend. Stay safe and be well.

Love,

Pamela 🌹

#WordlessWednesday- Happy 12th Birthday To My Daughter


Looking over the years as I watched her grow into a young lady who is wise above her years, I realize how hard motherhood can be. Yet, rewarding.

I know I can be Mother Hover and want to shelter and protect her from the ways of the world, but I know that one day she will leave the nest and test her wings.

Life can be cruel and hard, but it can also be a lesson learned. I want her to know that.

As this is the year, the last year, before she officially becomes a teenager, I can only hope and pray that I continue to try to raise her right. And, that she choose the right path one day—for her. If not, I will continue to love her and trust that she will find her own way and place that trust in her to choose the life meant for her. I believe in her and know that she can accomplish anything she set her mind to.

I love you, my beautiful Aquarian daughter. May you continue to be smart, strong, empathetic, artistic, and all the things that make you, you.

Happy Birthday!!! 🎂🎈🎈

Photos taken by: Pamela Hester (I couldn’t choose one so I chose a “few,” from over the years.)

Happy Birthday To Me!!! 🎂🎁🎉


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Oh gosh! I can’t believe how fast a year had went by. I am still in my thirties, but I’m not telling my age. (Wink, wink.) These last twelve months had truly been a life learned lesson. We really can’t take life for granted. We got to get out there and pursue dreams. To live life on our own terms.
The one thing about getting older to me is that it causes you to look back at how far you have come in life. I am a totally different person now than who I once was. And I still got some ways to go to get to where I want to be.

Though, I do wish at times I can go back in life with the knowledge I have now. (Don’t we all?) And change some things I’ll like to fix. The real reason is you can’t go backwards, only forward. Life isn’t designed that way. Every single thing that had happened was meant for me to go through. To learn. To heal. To help others. And, 

I. Am. So. Grateful. For. It. All.

As for what I going to do for my birthday, I seriously have no idea. I probably will celebrate it some other time. Not sure. But what I can say what I would like to do is to go on a trip somewhere. To let my hair down and feel the wind massaging my scalp and caressing my skin. I want to truly be me. I’m an Aries, lovelies! 💋

Anyway, I want to donate more to those who need help. We should never forget about the less fortunate on the non-holidays. I have a whole list to share that I’ll reserve for another day.

Until then, I hope all is well in your lives, and be joyous and blessed.

Xoxo.

– Pamela 😘

Happy Anniversary to K. Phoenix


Yay! Happy anniversary to this bloog! And happy birthday to me! 😊 K. Phoenix has really been through some things and changes, just like any other blog. My plans for K. Phoenix had changed so much I’ve forgotten what it originally was. Lol.

Through it all, I want to thank everyone for your support, patience, and putting up with my weirdness. It means a lot to me. I couldn’t have gotten this far without you guys. Much love! 🙏💫💞