How One Keep A Relationship- Love Unconditionally 

First, get to know and love yourself!

Happy Friday!

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”

— Anonymous


“There are two basic motivating forces: fear and love. When we are afraid, we pull back from life. When we are in love, we open to all that life has to offer with passion, excitement, and acceptance. We need to learn to love ourselves first, in all our glory and our imperfections. If we cannot love ourselves, we cannot fully open to our ability to love others or our potential to create. Evolution and all hopes for a better world rest in the fearlessness and open-hearted vision of people who embrace life.”

— John Lennon

Love may not be Easy, but I Guarantee it’s Worth It.

I had came across this article on Elephant Journal and found it very beautifully told. Love is never easy that is why you have to work at it with the one you’re with- if the feeling is mutual.

Some say love should always be easy—but in many instances, it’s not the love that is difficult but rather the getting it right that causes turmoil and tears.

Oftentimes, most of us like to take the easy road and not fight or work hard for anything. Click on the link below to read more.

Your simple deliciousness is pure soul food. You are my safe place in this world, and while I don’t know exactly how this happened—you comfort something in me.

Source: Love may not be Easy, but I Guarantee it’s Worth It.

What Does The Meaning Of Love Means To You?

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Love doesn’t just means to say you’re sorry. Love is the essence of what we have to conquer to make this thing right, within us and around us. It is often taken for granted, from the ones who haven’t got it quite right yet. It’s something that is often hard to decipher, leaving most confuse to understand the language- the language of love.

You have to first love yourself. Before you can love another human being, you have to first love the person you see in the mirror everyday. No one can love you better than you love yourself. You’ll know what you can and can not tolerate, what makes you tick, and knowing that person (which is you) deep down can handle.

What does it mean when a person tells you they love you? Is it from the heart or are they just saying it for the moment? Some people say it with their whole heart, but it’s the matter of doing not just the saying. From the little things they do to the greatest; showing goes as far as just hearing those three little words.

Love is expressed as an action and experience as a feeling. When you expressed love, it goes deeper than the deepest well, further than the widest sea, higher than the highest mountain.

What are the qualities of love? They are:

  • Empowering
  • Appreciated
  • Everlasting
  • Valuable
  • Confident
  • Peaceful
  • Respect
  • Co-operation
  • …. just to name a few.

Give immensely without expecting something in return. Actively show love. Love unconditionally. Accept what love has in store for you and expect nothing less. Be tolerant.

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Writing Challenge (Day 20)- My Shuffle Music

I love music, all genres. It’s what kind of helped me write and to blog. It also had helped me through a lot of problems in life. I can’t see my life without it.

Today, for this challenge, I am putting my MP3 player on shuffle and choose three songs. I will also tell you what I think about each one. Hope you all enjoy them.

  1. Savage Garden- Truly, Madly, Deeply- Romantic, will make you fall in love, make you believe love exists, to keep believing

Watch video here- Savage Garden- Truly, Madly, Deeply


I’ll be your dream

I’ll be your wish I’ll be your fantasy

I’ll be your hope I’ll be your love

Be everything that you need

I’ll love you more with every breath

Truly, madly, deeply do

I will be strong I will be faithful

’cause I’m counting on

A new beginning

A reason for living

A deeper meaning, yeah


I want to stand with you on

a mountain

I want to bathe with you in the sea

I want to lay like this forever

Until the sky falls down on me

And when the stars are shining

brightly in the velvet sky,

I’ll make a wish send it to heaven

Then make you want to cry

The tears of joy for all the

pleasure and the certainty

That we’re surrounded by the

comfort and protection of
The highest powers

In lonely hours

The tears devour you


Oh can you see it baby?

You don’t have to close your eyes

‘Cause it’s standing right

before you

All that you need will surely come

I’ll be your dream I’ll be your wish

I’ll be your fantasy

I’ll be your hope I’ll be your love

Be everything that you need

I’ll love you more with every breath

Truly, madly, deeply do

[chorus 2x]
2. David Glen Eisley- Sweet Victory- Motivational, good rock and roll, champion, fighting for what you want

Verses that spoke to me when I want to give up: ” Don’t ever look back on the world closing in. Be on attack with the your wings in the wind.”

To you all, I want to tell you to keep this in mind when times are hard and you can’t seem to find that light at the end of the tunnel:

“Against all the odds, against all your pain, Your backs on the wall with no one to blame. Wild hearts won’t be tamed.”

Watch lyrical video here- David Glen Eisley- Sweet Victory

3. Michael Jackson- Man In The Mirror- Inspirational, the acts of brutality, racism, hatred, and violence. Keeping faith and hope this world will change if we first look within ourselves and make a change.

Watch video here- Michael Jackson- Man In The Mirror

Songs are emotional at times, yet they are like a blanket on a cold night or a friend when you need them. Thanks for reading and watching the videos.

♥️ Pamela