Writing Challenge (Day 11) Relationship Status


For todays writing challenge (Day 11), I’m yet to expose myself more and more everyday and share it with the world. I am to write about my current relationship status, whether in a relationship or single.

This post is two posts (of a previous post) merged into one. Since, I can not simply speak on my current status, (too overwhelming) I’m just going to lightly scratch the surface.

Most take a relationship for a joke, after they feel like they have “gotten” you; and take what was meant to be beautiful for granted.  I hate to see ones who want and try so hard to keep a relationship going while the other is merely slacking off. Some get into a relationship or marriage with false pretenses leaving the other to believe what the heck happened.

I’m sorry. I have to leave this one here. Just too emotional to write about. Please feel free to share what being in a relationship means to you, or anything else you feel fit. Thank you for reading.

 

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Above photo are merely tips and explains everything on how one could keep a relationship going. I, for one called them advice. I can tell you it is not easy keeping a relationship going, especially if one of you falls into a pattern; or get a little too comfortable. It’s easy to start off doing all the right things in the beginning, but what happens months later? Years later? We have to do everything in our power to make a relationship/marriage work. And, that is if you are willing to make it work.

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Write On, Someone Wants To Read It


The Writers Circle

I haven’t had the chance to interviewed a fellow writer, blogger, or author to get their take on this quote. A lot of us, I’m sure, may have been through this before, including me.

I do would like to know from anyone who went through this, how were you able to overcome it? What advice can you give to the ones who may be suffering and fighting their way through?

I believe, if you can, ignore that nasty, mean voice that taunt you daily that you cannot write your story. Or, that poem, memoir, and even that post in your blog. Oftentimes, we hold ourselves back because we are afraid that whatever we are writing aren’t good enough. We would tell ourselves, “Who would read this?” Someone out there wants to read your story. May it be fiction or nonfiction, they can relate to your appealing story in some way.

So I say to you, write to your heart content. Birth that wonderful story of yours and introduce it to the world.

Keep Calm, She’s Writing


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Sometimes when I go ghost on someone is not because they had done something bad to me, I’m simply trying to stay balanced with everything I have going on.

At times, when you have a project to do, and with a deadline attached, some doesn’t or won’t understand how much it means to you. I know for others it took a lot of effort, hard work, and dedication to get to where they are today. Some even had to cut some people off.

Recently, a female even unfriended me whom I have always been cordial to. She wants to be a writer also, and I started to noticed that everything I was posting from WordPress, she’d copied. The content was changed and anything else I would do wherever from the internet, she would copycat. I made a post on Facebook about it (not mentioning her name), and before I known it, she unfriended me. Oh well.

I won’t repeat myself on how I got to the point I am now, and still pushing to strive for my previous posts said it all for me. Heated arguments, losing people, what will that bring you down the line? Being a people pleaser, and putting your dreams on hold for someone who can care less will NOT get you far in life. You have to help yourself as well. Trust me I know. From this point on, if you have not already, start your day, your life off to where YOU want it to be.  It’s your life and only you can live it. You only have one, make great use of it.

How Do One Keep a Relationship?


 These are merely tips on how one could keep a relationship going. I, for one called them advices. I can tell you it is not easy keeping a relationship going, especially if one of you falls into a pattern; or get a little too comfortable. It’s easy to start off doing all of the right things in the beginning, but what happens months later? Years later? We have to do everything in our power to make a relationship/marriage work. And, that is if you are willing to make it work. The photo above explains everything precisely.

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Pamela Hester 🌹