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Instagram Moments On Monday- Work On Yourself First

On By PamelaIn Blogging2 Comments

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I was just having a LONG discussion about this with a 'potential' guy… Seesh I am approached by many men who either mentally, spiritually, financially, emotionally bring nothing, nada, zilch to the table. Simply not equally yoked. Intimacy comes a dime a dozen, there is no shortage of that, but finding someone with real substance, their own assets and that can contribute to your growth or help you to take the "load" off is a rare find. Until then work on yourself, become the best YOU that you can, be a better parent, friend, business person, writer, child of God, get fit etc. FOCUS and don't rush into a situation to fill a perceived void. It may end up costing you in the end. Enjoy life and take in a few sunsets…. But never settle I know that I will not. Remember that REAL love is rare, deeply felt and it doesn't happen overnight . Be patient and gentle with yourself. 👍🏾🙏🏾. #RandomThoughts #TwinFlame #NeverFuckingSettle #MekaIsms ❤️💋…. OH and when it's RIGHT it doesn't take five years to figure it out. #Focus

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What she said above. 🖕🏼Happy Monday everyone! #relationship goals

Single Status

On By PamelaIn LifeLeave a comment

I am doing a poll on single people. Being single amazes me in more ways than one. Even though I’m not single at the moment, it’s tough being in a relationship and not quite my cup of tea. Maybe it’s me or the other person, but I was more in tuned being single in the past.
It was peaceful, a loving embrace and I had never been happier.

Not everyone like being single, and most people like being in a relationship. You have to know what’s for you right off the bat. Do you. Be you. If you have to, date yourself. Get to know yourself. Learn what works and what doesn’t.

Until we meet again,

Pamela🌹