Happy Blogversary, K. Phoenix! 🎉🎉

Whew! Where has the time gone? I can’t believe it has been a whole decade since I started this blog. I didn’t know what the heck I wanted this blog to be about, but I am glad the direction it is going now. Even with the ups and downs, it had taught me a lot, and I had learned a lot over the years. I’m still learning actually.

As some of you may know, and my new followers who don’t know, within the 10 years, I had gone months, close to a year without blogging. There are times when life gets in the way and you simply cannot blog or write. There were times when I wanted to and couldn’t because of what was going on in my life during those times.

So, I would like to give a huge thank you for rocking (and rolling 😄) with me, even when I’m absent sometimes.

As you know blogging and writing, in general, can be hard at times. And, it is also what I love as well. I also love getting to know you all and reading whatever you choose to share with the world. Some of you I have known here for almost ten years and interacted with outside of WordPress but in other parts of the cyber world.

Cheers to 10 years of blogging on here. And hopefully, cheers to another 10, loves!!


It’s My 9th Blogversary!

I would like to say that though I had constantly took breaks from my blog, I am glad that I hadn’t given up on it and abandon it totally.

It does take work to manage a blog, but with hard work, perseverance, and determination, it will pay off in the end. And there’s still more ways to go, and ideas I want to do with it and so on.

I also want to thank you all so much for being there for me and hanging in there. You have inspired and supported me in ways that I can’t even begin to put into words. Just know that I am grateful and appreciate you all from the bottom of my heart.

For those of you who are starting out, don’t give up. If it gets tough, it’s okay to take breaks. Do what you love and love what you do. Take your time and know it is not a race. Learn, learn, and learn all that you can. It’s your blog and you should want the best for it.

Make it what you want it to be.

Again, thank you loves for all that you do. You’re so wonderful.

Much love,



It’s My Blog-versary!!!

First off I would like to say good morning/afternoon/evening to everyone! How have you all been doing? I know I’m slow to putting up posts, but I have started working from home last month and still getting into the swing of things. A story for another day.

I would like to thank you all for hanging in there with me whether it have been for these past seven years this blog has been up, or seven years or seven months. I am grateful for you all.

There have been moments where I have been absent from my blog from dealing with all kinds of issues. I even wanted to shut it down. However, everything is coming together in many areas.

This blog means so much as well as you all do to me. I was lost at first on where I wanted it to go, and it had taken some time to get it where I wanted it to be. And, I still got some more ideas in store for it. (We all know there is and should be room for growth in everything that we do.)

Long story short, don’t give up on your passions but do take breaks for yourself. It gets hard, but you have to persevere. Also, don’t listen to the naysayers. They don’t know what’s in your heart and what God has in store for you. Everyone have their own life to live.

I am proud to celebrate another year K. Phoenix been up. I am humble and optimistic on where this journey will take me. 

Thank you from the bottom of my heart and I will do my very best to bring you more spirituality, poems, stories, inspiration, and glimpses into my life this year. 


Pamela 💋❤

Happy Blog-versary to K.Phoenix #Achievement #Blogging

Wow! I can’t believe it had been six years since I’ve started this blog. It was a rocky road at first and a learning experience. This blogging thingy kind of pulled me into it; so much things I had wanted to blog about.

You guys have been extremely supportive of me and my blog. I had took time off from it- several months here and a couple years there. Still, through my ups and downs and hanging in there, you were there. Thank you so much for all that you do!! 
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Much Thanks On Reaching 1,000!!! #Achievement 

First off, how has everyone’s Thanksgiving been? Mines went well. I spent it with my mom, daughter, and brothers. I love how we can be ourselves with each other and just laugh and talk about any and everything.

Now, about you all, I would like to thank each and every one of you from the bottom for everything that you do. Thank you so so much!

When I first started this blog, K. Phoenix, I was totally lost and confused; yet, I have gotten through the five years of managing it with hard work, breaks, determination, etc.

Though, I wasn’t alone. You guys have supported me and listened to my struggles, the good and the bad, and read my stories. It means so much to me to have wonderful people out there who are there for you. (Sniff, sniff.)

A little secret of mines: I haven’t been consistent with my blogging over the years. I took too long of time away from it due to: frustration, family issues, and to find myself outside of it. I wanted to know who I really am and the direction I wanted K. Phoenix to go.

Wow! I have lost some followers and gained more. Getting my content out there and reaching out inspiring others (and helping others) was and still is my main goal- not a number of followers I hope to have.
A few things to remember:

  • Be yourself. (Everyone does their own thing differently. We all are unique.)
  • Find your voice.
  • Be humble.
  • Don’t give up. (I know it is hard, but imagine how far you’ll go if you just keep the momentum.)
  • And, always support others. (We’re all in together.)

    Again, thank you all for following me! It has been a pleasure following you and reading your blog posts. Several more years to go with you guys. Woot woot! 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

    Much love,

    Pamela 🌹XO