Happy Blogversary, K. Phoenix! 🎉🎉

Whew! Where has the time gone? I can’t believe it has been a whole decade since I started this blog. I didn’t know what the heck I wanted this blog to be about, but I am glad the direction it is going now. Even with the ups and downs, it had taught me a lot, and I had learned a lot over the years. I’m still learning actually.

As some of you may know, and my new followers who don’t know, within the 10 years, I had gone months, close to a year without blogging. There are times when life gets in the way and you simply cannot blog or write. There were times when I wanted to and couldn’t because of what was going on in my life during those times.

So, I would like to give a huge thank you for rocking (and rolling 😄) with me, even when I’m absent sometimes.

As you know blogging and writing, in general, can be hard at times. And, it is also what I love as well. I also love getting to know you all and reading whatever you choose to share with the world. Some of you I have known here for almost ten years and interacted with outside of WordPress but in other parts of the cyber world.

Cheers to 10 years of blogging on here. And hopefully, cheers to another 10, loves!!


Happy Blogversary To K. Phoenix!

I can’t believe it has been 8 years since I’ve started this blog. A toast to the rough days and the not-so rough days.🍾🍷 Even though I have been active on here on and off over the years, I tried to published new content as often as I can. And oh yeah, reposting most as well. (Smiles and wink.)

A huge thank you to everyone who had like, comment, and reblog on K. Phoenix. I couldn’t have done this without you all. You have been marvelous, helpful, generous, but most of all, patient. I couldn’t have gotten this far without those attributes.

In the beginning, I was lost as heck and also lost some followers and then gain some. There were times when I had to take breaks from it, and times when the breaks came without my control. There were a time a few years ago I wanted to delete my blog, wait a while, and then start over fresh. Then I figured, why don’t I just start over with what I have. Delete a post or two that wasn’t working or what you. And work out the kinks as years went by. And I did. Still, I much needed work to do. I’m never truly satisfied with anything. (Let’s keep that secret between us, okay?)

I am thankful and grateful for this blog, you all, and WordPress. Much love,


Stay safe and be blessed.

Connect with me on Twitter: @PamelaHester

Instagram: @kphoenix1

Happy Blog-versary to K.Phoenix #Achievement #Blogging

Wow! I can’t believe it had been six years since I’ve started this blog. It was a rocky road at first and a learning experience. This blogging thingy kind of pulled me into it; so much things I had wanted to blog about.

You guys have been extremely supportive of me and my blog. I had took time off from it- several months here and a couple years there. Still, through my ups and downs and hanging in there, you were there. Thank you so much for all that you do!! 
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Much Thanks On Reaching 1,000!!! #Achievement 

First off, how has everyone’s Thanksgiving been? Mines went well. I spent it with my mom, daughter, and brothers. I love how we can be ourselves with each other and just laugh and talk about any and everything.

Now, about you all, I would like to thank each and every one of you from the bottom for everything that you do. Thank you so so much!

When I first started this blog, K. Phoenix, I was totally lost and confused; yet, I have gotten through the five years of managing it with hard work, breaks, determination, etc.

Though, I wasn’t alone. You guys have supported me and listened to my struggles, the good and the bad, and read my stories. It means so much to me to have wonderful people out there who are there for you. (Sniff, sniff.)

A little secret of mines: I haven’t been consistent with my blogging over the years. I took too long of time away from it due to: frustration, family issues, and to find myself outside of it. I wanted to know who I really am and the direction I wanted K. Phoenix to go.

Wow! I have lost some followers and gained more. Getting my content out there and reaching out inspiring others (and helping others) was and still is my main goal- not a number of followers I hope to have.
A few things to remember:

  • Be yourself. (Everyone does their own thing differently. We all are unique.)
  • Find your voice.
  • Be humble.
  • Don’t give up. (I know it is hard, but imagine how far you’ll go if you just keep the momentum.)
  • And, always support others. (We’re all in together.)

    Again, thank you all for following me! It has been a pleasure following you and reading your blog posts. Several more years to go with you guys. Woot woot! 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

    Much love,

    Pamela 🌹XO