What I Have Been Up To In 2019- The Shortened Version

Late post.

I can’t believe that it is now 2020. And I also can’t believe that I waited until the second month to finally say Happy New Year!
Most of you know how I am and some of you may not. But, last year has truly been some kind of year that left me busy doing work, side gigs and other work-related tasks that mostly took up my time. I had gone from having no job after having to quit a job I had a few years ago to now working at home.

So, yay! This means a lot to me because I’ve been having issues getting daycare and trusting someone with my child. Being able to work (at home) and knowing that your child is safe is like one of those dreams come true. I have dealt with not having family members to watch her so I can work, and most of them I don’t even trust. Long story,  another time.

As most of you may know, I haven’t been blogging in a long while. I also haven’t done any writing either. Two things I love so much and I had to put them both on hold. (Sigh) Don’t worry. I am working on posting more (new content), recycling old posts (😉), and getting some of those draft posts to publish.

Also last year, I have seriously discontinued any type of communication and sharing my energy with some people. There are folks out there who will use you up, if you allow them, and will treat you like YOU victimized THEM. Stay away from energy vampires. I had to seriously put in work on my self-worth, self-love, and self-awareness. If I didn’t learn and put in the work to own my life and protect my energy, I would be back where I was before and that’s scary. I’m not all the way there yet; though, I have much ways to go. (I have much more to share with you guys in another post, or two.)

You have to seriously think about what it is you want out of life if you haven’t done so already. And, know that you are not required to be around and share your energy with anyone who doesn’t have your best interests at heart. Live your best life and remember to take life one day at a time. We are here for whatever purpose but for one I know is to help others and share whatsoever we would like to share with others.

By the way, how are you all doing? What would you like to share? Let us know in the comments.

Take care,


7 thoughts on “What I Have Been Up To In 2019- The Shortened Version

  1. Thank you for this post! Every word you shared is what I needed to read, especially after how awful last week was. I know you are right, living one day at a time and surrounding ourselves with others that have our best interests at heart i vital. Life is difficult and if we try following our heart and instincts, we will always be a step ahead!

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    1. I’m glad you like it. Life is hard enough, so spending it around positive people is a great thing. And taking the time out for self is important too. Thank you for reading.


  2. Happy New Year 2020! No worries about when you say it, especially when you’ve been so busy. I can understand how it could sneak up on you. Well, what a nice surprise. It’s not only a new year, but a new decade. I find that very exciting. What about you?

    I’m doing well. Thanks for asking. I sweat very little, and thankfully haven’t had to clean my life of energy vampires in a very long time. It’s a good end of the year, first of the year thing to do though isn’t it, and I’m glad you took the time to get around to it. Just think of all the positive energy you now have to put into your passions, and your beloved child. Working at home seems to be getting more popular. I’m thrilled you can now do it. All you need to be is a self-starter, and you are on your way. I also suspect that your little darling enjoys having your around more.

    I have found that things work out, and even when it seems like we’re struggling to get “it” or ourselves together, we are actually failing forward. We are where we are supposed to be so that we can discern where we’d PREFER to be, and who we’d prefer to be with. Personally, I applaud you, and hope you are looking forward to more of your highest and best! 🙂 I know I am.

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    1. Thank you for your kind words. They are most appreciated. What you’ve said is so true about “we are where we are supposed to be so that we can discern where we’d PREFER to be.” Oftentimes things happen because it was already written in the Universe.
      I wish you all the best and all that you do.

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