How Do One Keep a Relationship?

 These are merely tips on how one could keep a relationship going. I, for one called them advices. I can tell you it is not easy keeping a relationship going, especially if one of you falls into a pattern; or get a little too comfortable. It’s easy to start off doing all of the right things in the beginning, but what happens months later? Years later? We have to do everything in our power to make a relationship/marriage work. And, that is if you are willing to make it work. The photo above explains everything precisely.

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What Does Love Means to You?

Love doesn’t just means to say you’re sorry. Love is the essence  of what we have to conquer to make this thing right, within us and around us. It is often taken for granted, from the ones who haven’t got it quite right yet. It’s something that is often hard to decipher, leaving most confuse to understand the language- the language of love.

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You have to first love yourself. Before you can love another human being, you have to first love the person you see in the mirror everyday. No one can love you better than you love yourself. You’ll know what you can and can not tolerate, what make you tick, and knowing that person (which is you) deep down.

What does it mean when a person tells you they love you? Is it from the heart or are they just saying it for the moment? Some people say it with their whole heart, but it’s the matter of doing not just the saying. From the little things they do to the greatest; showing goes as far as just hearing those three little words.

Love is expressed as an action and experience as a feeling. When you expressed love, it goes deeper than the deepest well, further than the widest sea, higher than the highest mountain.

What are the qualities of love? They are:

  • Empowering
  • Appreciated
  • Everlasting
  • Valuable
  • Confident
  • Peaceful
  • Respect
  • Co-operation
  • …. just to name a few.

Give immensely without expecting something in return. Actively show love. Love unconditionally. Accept what love has in store for you and expect nothing less. Be tolerant.

Until we meet again,



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Allow Yourself

Here’s a poem by Catherine Pulsifer, Allow Yourself . Just a little inspiration for your day. I hope it helps anyone who may need it.


Allow yourself to dream,

And when you do dream big.

Allow yourself to learn,
And when you do learn all you can.

Allow yourself to laugh,
And when you do share your laughter.

Allow yourself to set goals,
And when you do reward yourself as you move forward.

Allow yourself to be determined,
And when you do you will find you will succeed.

Allow yourself to believe in yourself,
And when you do you will find self confidence.

Allow yourself to lend a helping hand,
And when you do a hand will help you.

Allow yourself relaxation,
And when you do you will find new ideas.

Allow yourself love,
And when you do you will find love in return.

Allow yourself to be happy,
And when you do you will influence others around you.

Allow yourself to be positive,
And when you do life will get easier.

Relaxed Day at the Beach

It has been almost two weeks since my relaxing, fun-filled day at Myrtle Beach, SC with my family. I know, I’m late posting. My apologies. It had been nearly sixteen years that I been to the beach until now.

Spending time with the family while also relaxing, feeling the ocean waves against my skin, and watching my daughter pretending to be a mermaid, was glorious. I had always blog about relaxing, finding your bliss, and etc., but finally took my own advice.

Now, I have been writing my novel for my 90-day writer’s challenge for a little over a month now. My mind is clearer. I can finally get my creative juices going.

Writing and blogging besides being a mom and plugging in my iPod listening to variety of music, really makes the whirls of the world easy to deal with.

What do you do to help you find inner peace?

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