What Is Love

I’m in the mood for quotes today. Hope you guys like this one.

“Love is the bridge that leads from the I sense to the We, and there is a paradox about personal love. Love of another individual opens a new relation between the personality and the world. The lover responds in a new way to nature and may even write poetry. Love is affirmation; it motivates the yes responses and the sense of wider communication. Love casts out fear, and in the security of this togetherness we find contentment, courage. We no longer fear the age-old haunting questions: “Who am I?” “Why am I?” “Where am I going?” – and having cast out fear, we can be honest and charitable.”

Carson McCullers – The Mortgaged Heart: Selected Writings

Until we meet again,


Open Your Heart to Love

A quote of love by C. JoyBell C.

“We have to allow ourselves to be loved by the people who really love us, the people who really matter. Too much of the time, we are blinded by our own pursuits of people to love us, people that don’t even matter, while all that time we waste and the people who do love us have to stand on the sidewalk and watch us beg in the streets! It’s time to put an end to this. It’s time for us to let ourselves be loved.”

C. JoyBell C.

Happy Valentine’s Day!

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Today is the day of love, romance, and exchanging gifts. Although, for the latter, this special day means more than exchanging gifts. Valentine’s Day is the day to come together in peace and harmony, doing something special for someone. It can be anyone. It’s the day to JUST show love. An act of kindness, if I might add. The day to share love and to celebrate it.

Let’s start with romance. Okay, you give/receive the teddy bears, flowers, cards, or candy, but what does all that really entails? You can do all of that on any day of the year. But, Valentine’s Day is a celebrated day when you can express all that you have and now onto your love. Something as wonderful as a candlelit dinner, a bubble bath together, or making passionate love. The latter is obvious, of course.

Simple things matters the most when it comes from the heart. Like when you were a kid and you handmade a card for your mom on any occasions, and just seeing the joyous look on her face just brightens up your day.

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So, spread love. Be joyous. Stay happy. Happy Valentine’s Day!!!

Until we meet again,


Love Is…

Love doesn’t just means to say you’re sorry. Love is the essence  of what we have to conquer to make this thing right, within us and around us. It is often taken for granted, from the ones who haven’t got it quite right yet. It’s something that is often hard to decipher, leaving most confuse to understand the language- the language of love.

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You have to first love yourself. Before you can love another human being, you have to first love the person you see in the mirror everyday. No one can love you better than you love yourself. You’ll know what you can and can not tolerate, what make you tick, and knowing that person (which is you) deep down.

What does it mean when a person tells you they love you? Is it from the heart or are they just saying it for the moment? Some people say it with their whole heart, but it’s the matter of doing not just the saying. From the little things they do to the greatest; showing goes as far as just hearing those three little words.

Love is expressed as an action and experience as a feeling. When you expressed love, it goes deeper than the deepest well, further than the widest sea, higher than the highest mountain.

What are the qualities of love? They are:

  • Empowering
  • Appreciated
  • Everlasting
  • Valuable
  • Confident
  • Peaceful
  • Respect
  • Co-operation
  • …. just to name a few.

Give immensely without expecting something in return. Actively show love. Love unconditionally. Accept what love has in store for you and expect nothing less. Be tolerant.

Until we meet again,



couple in love


This Year, Let’s…

So, a whole month and a half has went by for 2015 and I am making it about me. I had spent the majority of my life allowing other people to orchestrated how my life should go. I was unhappy, lost, and felt like my life wasn’t going nowhere how I’d envisioned it.

When you had been beat down, degraded and to the point of no return, STOP!

Stop whatever you are doing. You may believe that there is no other way but down, but tell yourself this,

“I am someone special. I deserve nothing but the best and will accept nothing less. I am___” Or you can choose something of your own choosing. Just always keep in mind that you don’t deserve to be treated badly.

Let’s start with this year, (or if you had already started on your journey; way to go!, just reach out to someone who lost their way), and become a new you, a new and approved you.
Let 2015 be the year that you say, “F*** it! This is my year for a better change.”

I am going to take this journey and work on me. I didn’t start a blog just for someone to tell me I can’t succeed. I didn’t write my novel Secrets Unveil just to stash it somewhere, afraid to move forward on what others may think. It may be unpublished at the moment, but I’m determined to bypass what negatives come my way.

This year, let’s become a whole new person despite what others may think and say. Whatever it is you want to do in life, any dreams you want to see come through, push until something happens.

I will share any insights, tips, my own advice and journey as we go about this year. Much success and love to you all. Good luck.

Until we meet again,
Pamela 🌹

Happy New Year!


So long 2014…Hello 2015!

As I say goodbye to the ever predictable 2014, and welcome in the new year of 2015, I take a glimpse back on all that had transpired. From a new job to it being ended, to happiness to despair. Although this year hasn’t been the best, I plan to embark on a new journey down 2015.

2014 has taught me not to expect the unexpected. It had enlightened me to do more for me and put myself first without stressing over what others think. I had allowed people to control my life and I’m planning on trying hard to grab the reins and steer my life the way I want it to go. You only get one life to live and once that life is over, there’s no going back.

I don’t make resolutions because it never follows through, but I’m going to make sure whatever plan I make is of my own choosing. The act of being happy, independent, financial independent, and to have my daughter see her mother strong and not dependent on others.

Whatever plan you make, do it for you. Don’t allow others to control which way your life should go. Remember, you only have one life to live.
Happy New Year!

Until we meet again,

Love Poems and Quotes- Part 1

couple in loveI have always been a sucker for poems of love and quotes. I find them romantic and endearing. We all love, but most doesn’t understand the meaning of what love is all about.

It is said that love is a deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude couple in love1toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness.

And, also, a feeling of intense desire and attraction toward a person with whom one is disposed to make a pair; the emotion of sex and romance.

Here’s a short list of a few of my favorite poems and quotes that I want to share with you all:

A Special World

A special world for you and me

A special bond one cannot see

It wraps us up in its cocoon

And holds us fiercely in its womb.

Its fingers spread like fine spun gold

Gently nestling us to the fold

Like silken thread it holds us fast

Bonds like this are meant to last.

And though at times a thread may break

A new one forms in its wake

To bind us closer and keep us strong

In a special world, where we belong.

– Sheelagh Lennon –



If I could have just one wish,
I would wish to wake up everyday
to the sound of your breath on my neck,
the warmth of your lips on my cheek,
the touch of your fingers on my skin,
and the feel of your heart beating with mine…
Knowing that I could never find that feeling
with anyone other than you.

– Courtney Kuchta –


Winter Moonlight

The snow, so peaceful and serene,

caressed by the soft moonlight,

gave magical feelings to the night.

The soft blue glow,

the lovers’ words that then did flow,

their lips closer and closer

until, locked in the throes

of a passionate embrace,

he decided to express his feelings,

to keep her safe.

He whispered softly,

his words like music to her ears,

“I Love You,”

and her response the same,

heard like the gentle breeze,

“And I, love you, forever.”

That was the night they promised

to be together through everything,

each to care for the other when old and gray.

A lovers’ pact

the most likely to last.

– Krista J. Mikula –


Love is strong yet delicate.

It can be broken.

To truly love is to understand this.

To be in love is to respect this.

– Stephen Packer –


What Is It That I Love?

If asked why I love her I would say

It’s the sway in her hips,

the thickness in her thighs.

It’s the lust in her lips,

the love in her eyes.

It’s the softness of her skin,

the silk in her hair.

It’s the twist in her walk;

it’s the sweetness in her talk.

It’s the way she loves me

that makes me love her each day.

That is what I would say.

– Justin Hutchins –


Never Have I Fallen

Your lips speak soft sweetness
Your touch a cool caress
I am lost in your magic
My heart beats within your chest

I think of you each morning
And dream of you each night
I think of your arms being around me
And cannot express my delight

Never have I fallen
But I am quickly on my way
You hold a heart in your hands
That has never before been given away

– Rex A. Williams –